I have not really seen very much written about how we are all transferring energy around all of the time! Part of our journey as a spirit in the physical body is to understand the messages when we transfer energy and to become so solid that we hold a positive state of emotions all of the time. I am constantly watching and studying how energy works, flows, and connects us to our divine mission. There is no where to go to do spiritual work as every present moment is full of lessons!
Here are some key idea’s about emotions and energies to keep in mind.
- If you repress emotions you blare them in you’re energetic field. Officially you are what us energetically sensitive folks call “broadcasting”. This could be felt by an empath as a wave of emotions that they know are not our own. Or it could be a shutdown of a chakra vortex putting physical pressure on the body, organs, pathways, and systems in it’s field similar to a mini tornado.
- Emotions transfer energy between people ALL of the time. Regardless if you feel or see energy you are an intrinsic part of the universe and when you start looking and becoming aware of what’s happening you will begin to SEE how this happens. Scientifically there is no way around the laws of the nature.
So let’s see God did I get that right?!? I am here to deeply experience. When I deny myself feelings I create an energetic shutdown BUT I’m also supposed to become a constant state of unconditional love, gratitude, compassion, bliss, peace, and forgiveness. For so long I couldn’t figure this out. What am I supposed to do here with this . . . seems contradictory. I’m a mushy, deeply feeling, sensitive female creature who cares about others in a sometimes non-sensible way. I’m supposed to be attached but not attached . . . suffer enough to see my way out of suffering completely . . . unconditionally love but don’t become a door mat . . . forgive but be smart enough to know who to trust . . . embrace the ego but live fully by spirit/christ consciousness/universal love . . .
Awe no wander there is darkness! Certainly this would be easy if we were all little bliss bubbles running around. On some other dimensions that’s exactly what we do I’m sure of it! We deeply understand how energy and the spiritual vessel works and use a complete constant state of LIGHT together with our physical bodies as ways to express LOVE through the arts, music, food, dance, and everything we do! Each and every present moment simply becomes an expression of cosmic consciousness separate yet interlaced in beauty with everyone and everything. All that we touch is infused by our universally tapped magic!
We are making our way through here first though so we will be ready. Do you see this 3rd dimension we experience here on Earth is built in with the darkness to make us stronger! We cannot hit higher dimensions until we radiate unconditional love, forgiveness, compassion, peace, and bliss in every present moment! Hence the whole need for the time capsule here and illusion of separateness as we experience our unhealed spaces to work out our own inner turmoil!!
So what happens exactly with these little messengers we have ALL the time in transferring energy!
As a positive, caring, loving person you’re energetic field is really open! This is shown by the aura being more like a dotted line filtering energy in and out. The self-centered and negative person has a closed aura that is very self-contained. You see how you magnetically line up. You are very focused on others. They are very focused on themselves. This happens a lot in marriages the positive vibe marries the negative vibe. Or for example, one partner is completely needy and receives their own lack of love from others. The other partner needs to be “needed”. They make up for their lack of self-love by being “needed”. If either partner decides to do their own self work through the journey inside themselves rather than receiving LOVE from outside sources those energies will NOT continue to line up. When one person shifts the magnetic attraction will completely fall apart.
What most people don’t see is that they are responsible not the other person! The person who “needs to be needed” will complain about how “needy” there partner is but cannot see their role in the relationship. If you “need to be needed” guess what you won’t stay with someone who is well grounded and self-sufficient. Even if one relationship falls apart guess what the next relationship will be the same! I also think their is a pattern you recreate when you have a dysfunctional relationship with a parent and newsflash we all DO lol! But you a choose a partner that mirrors where you haven’t worked out those unhealed wounds with that parent. However that’s a whole other topic for another day too. 🙂
So what happens as your energetic field goes from positive to negative emotions? All your little happy emotions start transferring to the negative person. I never realized this until I started having experiences with energy YET once I connected all the dots so much made sense. You can watch this happen in you. You can totally feel this happen as you shift from that happy, positive, and loving vibe to that sad, depressed, negative vibe. You’re thinking what just happened I was so happy and you might even want to blame them!!
My 10 year old daughter who started talking about seeing the matrix a few years ago first explained this to me as dark cords. “mom there’s all these cords. The red one’s are love but the black ones are bad. People will attach them to you and you have to cut them.” We all know those people who turn every possible situation into a negative outlook. As an empath what I never understood is I was getting hooked into their feelings. What happens when someone is negative and the positive person just allows them to be without ruining their mood? Now is it easy to do?!? On paper maybe but we put people on our path that know all of our internal hot buttons. Well ya! That’s why I call Earth training camp . . . Here’s how you’re field looks after you hang out and transfer your positive energy to that negative vibe. Guess who feels better they do? Guess who feels worse? You DO! Watch this happen and you will see them actually be happier when you shift yourself into that negative state of being! Awe and then the light bulb goes ON and you can see it! SOLID GOLD MOMENT RIGHT THERE!
I’ve done this too not on purpose which I think some people actually get a feedback off of shifting you into negative emotions. Narcissists, controlling, and manipulative personalities I am not including in this because they are intentionally using people. If you think about it though even as a loving person I get frustrated in myself. My attitude will reflect that and I may be less patient with my kids! I might blow up about something they did when really it’s just me. I’m stressed out or frazzed out. I’ve noticed there’s always an internal message something I needed to learn even in dealing with a narcissist. However narcissists are a whole topic themselves. Honestly energy vampires that require a whole complete novel dedicated to them! I’m working on a whole e-book on what you’re internal cracks are when you hook repeatedly into these relationships. Look for that soon!
Let’s take a look at this with an example. The bliss bubble is really rolling that day and you are feeling like a million bucks. So fun loving! You run into that negative vibe who thinks you are just too happy. They are feeling internally miserable so you just hit all of here triggers. You get in an argument because they pick a fight someway somehow. Maybe this your spouse, a coworker, or a family member that knows all your little weak spots! You know what you think I’m not going down I’m happy and I won’t let you ruin my mood. However that little negative vibe just won’t shut up. They are just pushing and pushing on you until it happens. You snap! Bamm all of the sudden you blow you’re top and hit the negative wheel. All you have to do is get frustrated with them and they’ve picked up some energy. A full on melt down now that’s like the land of milk and honey right there.
Becoming aware of it is empowering in itself! So many times I’ve watched myself get into the negative wheel too! I can just see them too as the throw their comments and jabs at me begging me to get into the misery wheel. When I do they get happier and what cracks me up is sometimes they might even try to console me. “It’s not that bad.” Or just as I watch them shift themselves into a happier state of being while I’m over here dripping with their negative goobers. That’s part of our mission here is to learn how to not take on other people’s stuff. Unless it positive vibes and then we want those suckers to magnify when we are around each other!!
What do we need to do to get there?! Embrace how our ego works to lead us into unconditional love. You must really recognize how you have been guilty of jealousy, lust, gluttony, envy, pride, and all of those fun qualities that they have been using religions to make us feel ashamed of ourselves. Well guess what happens when you realize you’ve been jealous before and you meet up with someone who’s a jealous personality. You don’t make judgement’s. You love and accept them because you can see your own guilt! That right there shifts your field. How about envy? The media has been trying to manipulate the comparative mind against us since it’s conception. We all compare ourselves to each other but what happens when you decide to embrace that feeling and see beyond it rather than watch it lead you around in circles!
Who makes more money?
Who drives a better car?
Who has a nicer house?
Who’s went further in their career?
Who’s in better physical shape?
Just all kinds of ways that are created by the ego to trap us in negative emotions. I watch my comparative mind all the time. I’m aware that she’s a part of me but I don’t let her lead me down the road of “I’m not good enough.” But you know what that’s taken me . . . deeply loving myself just as I am the good, bad, and the ugly! When I see someone’s comparative mind at work I don’t judge them for it one bit because I see mine but I also don’t take their negative emotions and swap energy. That’s because I see my own guilt in operating within my comparative mind and I see how it actually was an indicator of my own lack of self love being reflected by someone else.
I like examples because sometimes the words can lead to a bunch of mumbo jumbo . . . imagine you see an old high school friend running around town. It’s a gorgeous day and you feel like the world is full of new possibilities. You visit for awhile and find out he is the CEO of a successful company. In fact, he is driving a brand new fancy Escalade. The guy was always such an arrogant ego-maniac you think of course he has it all! Assholes always hit the top rung on the corporate ladder. Of course, he hasn’t changed since high school as he scoffs at you and makes a comment, “Is that the same care you drove in high school?”
“No it’s not actually. What I love about it though is it’s paid for!” You try to keep your composure when you really want to just be driving a Ferrari and cram that sucker down his throat. You don’t show him but you feel like pond scum for the moment and are forced to tell him when he so politely asks in his condescending way, “so what are you up to?” Oh the glory moment to tell him how you just got divorced. You moved back to your home town to start over and are looking for a job but haven’t found one yet. You both walk away and he smirks as he gets into his fancy rig looking like a rock star. Immediately you start to feel like a failure in life. This one little 15 minute interval has totally shifted you’re entire mood and outlook on life. Some things here have to happen before you get total control of you’re field!
You must love yourself there in that space for you to become unconditional love and protect your energetic field!
It’s not him that rejects you.
It’s you that rejects you.
He is simply a mirror for you to see that internal crack!
That old high school friend gets in his Escalade and drives off and what you don’t see is he just showed up with a bunch of negative emotions you didn’t see. He is stressed to the max with a wife that spends all of his money and he doesn’t truly love anyways. That corporate job squeezes out 70-80 hours a week from him so he can stay on top. Everything he owns needs that big guy paycheck though to make those bills happen every month. Of course he would never say it but he would love to drive a car that was paid off. He would love to leave his wife and this draining corporate job. Your life is full of freedom!
And so the two comparative minds go to work along with those cracks where each party is reflecting their own lack of love through that 15 minute encounter. We are all the same. Only the manifestations of the lack of love show up in different ways. If you deeply loved yourself with the old car, the divorce, the no job his little comments wouldn’t have affected you one bit. The energy transfer would have never happened and you would have continued on your day just as happy as you started out! Even if you see that jealousy or envy pop up from the comparative mind you acknowledge and embrace that part of you exactly how it shows up! You see it for what it is and let it go! What’s cool about seeing yourself fall into the trap is when other people jump in the “comparative mind” wheel you feel compassion, forgiveness, and unconditional love rather than envy, bitterness, anger, shame and whatever negative emotions the experience may trigger.
Do you see it’s a road map but guess what also happens when we all deeply heal our inner wounds. We stop the energy transfers in their tracks. You create an energetic force of exponentially expanding light in the time space continuum that spreads like waves of love across the ocean!
That’s how we transmute darkness into light and exactly what we are here to learn!
And if I am giving them my permission it is because I have a space inside of me that has not yet fully healed. They are not to blame. I will be grateful to them as they are simply my messenger!
Waves of Love,